Sorry about that moment of wild neekiness, I've just really wanted to say that to someone :( so I decided to do the smart thing and say it on a public domain for all to see :/
AAAANNNNYYYYWHOOZLES; LET'S GET DOWN TO THAT GET DOWN! Today's topic...is in the title (I feel like being an ass today, sue me). I'm gonna look at it from both angles at one time, 'cause I'm a woman and women are fantastical multitaskers!
Every now and then you hear some angry lost soul make the wild statement that there are no good (insert relevant gender here) left, simply because they have either been single for so long that their itty bitty heart has blackened with bitterness and sexual frustration resulting in them giving up hope, or they consistantly find themselves f*ckin' with 'aint shit' people...*Katt Williams voice* "Wit' cho aint sh*t p*ssy!" Once they have made this biased statement, it is common for the male of the species to claim that he is on this 'money over b*tches' flex -and 7.002 times out of 10 (real life accurate facts from the Scottypedia) he ends up with neither -whereas the female of the species can be found reading Mills and Boons novels with her cat(s) every Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday at 6pm ^_^.
This statement holds a high percentage of concentrated nonsense. It's as dumb as saying 'all men/women are the same' -_- are YOU the same as every other (insert relevant gender here again)? No? Oh, so you're the exception to the rule yeah? Okay, cool.
You attract what you project b*tch, and people can only treat you the way you allow them to.
Now let me break this down so it can forever be broke (like yo last aint sh*t man); THERE ARE PLENTY OF GOOD MEN/WOMEN LEFT, BUT MAYBE, JUST MAYBE, THEY DIDN'T THINK THAT YOU WERE WORTH BEING GOOD FOR! TADAAAAA; mystery solved, b*tch!
On the other hand, you probably have a good man/woman in your life but you're too busy running after Keisha and Tyrone so you decided to friendzone them. By the time you look up and pay them some mind, they've already moved the f*ck on. Surprise! You'll be like 'Yeah so, you cool babes?', and they smile and wave ,all chipper because of their new relationship, 'Hi there, ol' buddy ol' pal!' You reach in for a hug and you get a friendly high 5. It's a mess.
As we get older, naturally we become more aquainted with relationship experiences (well...most of us), so by the time we hit our late teens a lot of us are scarred from past experiences and we put up the walls of Azkaban to avoid being hurt again -especially the menziz; y'all are so sensitive! B*tches get hurt all 4/5 times and then give up. Menziz; 1 STRIKE AND YOU LOT ARRRRE OUT!
The walls we build are there to protect us from who we consider to be the wrong people, whether they be wrong because we do not trust their intentions, or in the more asshole-ish type cases -we just don't like them enough to engage in anything but physical acts, or to 'boops' them (I'm showing my age with that word init lol. The term 'boops' is slang for using someone for material things).
Every man/woman has the capacity to be 'good' to someone, but some are just cautious as they don't want their efforts wasted on someone they deem underserving. These days you can't be giving any and anybody the treatment; are you mad? The way some people are so f*cked up that they will take you for a Sunday dinner left over corn on the cob, is not even funny. People generally think like this: you want the best of me? Earn it!
B*tches be swanning around NOT cooking for you. Dudes be putting padlocks on their wallets NOT taking you no place, because at the end of the day, what the f*ck have YOU done to deserve it? How do they know that YOU aint gonna take their kindness for weakness?
Once a person feels they have found the RIGHT person, they will go that extra mile for them, but with some people, if they are not sure of you, yo ass aint getting sh*t but some electric bedtime boogaloo and 'Soooo...it's kinda late. You aint got to go home but you gots ta get the hell outta here yo!"
Now with all this being said, as much as people have walls and you will have to try and earn their trust in order to get the treatment, don't let anyone take the piss out of your life like say they're Jay-Z and your name is The Dream!
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Someone else hurting them in their past is not your fault. All you can do is make an effort, see how they react to it and take the next step from there.
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